Chapter 173: Same Frequency Resonance
Although the boy’s cultivation is already very high, he also has people whom his instincts reject. This is related to energy attributes, not to do with which person it is.
This type of person is full of complaints about life. When something happens, they don’t think about how to solve the problem, but rather find excuses for themselves. It is extremely difficult to change their own bad habits. Unless they sincerely repent after hearing Buddhist Dharma, or experience something significant that causes them to change, otherwise, their soul will be pulled further and further away by others, and even the people around them will gradually distance themselves.
This is the same principle as same frequency resonance. The old saying, “Birds of a feather flock together,” refers to same frequency resonance.
For example, if you are surrounded by a group of positive people who speak positively, seemingly full of endless fighting spirit, and you are influenced, you will also become this type of person.
Conversely, if you are not only not influenced, but also turn the high-spirited forward momentum of the entire circle into negative, then you are not far from being kicked out.
This is called one rotten fish spoiling a whole pot of soup.
To preserve the pot of soup, this rotten fish will definitely be fished out, cursed, and thrown into the trash.
This rotten fish is a metaphor for the negative energy people around you.
How contagious is this negative energy?
For instance, if you are surrounded by people who gossip and talk to you all the time, after a while, you will find yourself unknowingly becoming like them.
For another example, if you always hang out with someone who likes to complain, then slowly you will become the same. Basically, you will be assimilated by them without you realizing it, unless your own energy is much stronger than theirs and can block them out. Otherwise, let it be, resentment breeds resentment, resentment escalates to the sky, and finally turns into a battlefield. This is the same frequency resonance effect between people.
It is common in daily life, among friends, family, and lovers, this effect exists.
It’s like the real reason many children are depressed is not with the children at all, but with their damn parents and the people around them.
So how to solve it? There are only two ways: either block them out, or stay away. Because negative energy will only bring you more negative energy. Even positive energy, when it approaches you, will be turned into negative energy. So is that good?
Hurry and turn your head to find someone with positive energy, follow them with humility and low profile, and use their positive energy to help yourself become positive.
Otherwise, just thinking about it is damn scary. A group of people filled with resentment, blaming each other, their lives’ sky will be affected and turn gray.
You must stay away from negative energy and follow those with positive energy to become more positive. Just like why so many people follow Brother Jesus, the Buddha, and the Dao Ancestor, it is because they possess that unwavering positive strength, love all beings, save all sentient beings, and benefit all things, being completely positive.
The boy has a friend who is that kind of person who likes to complain. This is very difficult to change, and it is also related to their family of origin. This complaining is not intentional, but rather they have become accustomed to complaining due to environmental influences.
The boy rarely pays attention to this friend, or when they occasionally chat, the boy teaches her mind control techniques, but people without comprehension cannot learn it. For example, if you tell her a story, after she finishes listening, she is still stuck on the story, but has not thought about the meaning of the story at all. Then even listening to more is useless. Only when she understands it herself one day can she comprehend. If she doesn’t understand and doesn’t think about it, she will never comprehend.
If you directly teach her the method, she listens but doesn’t believe it, which is like farting.
Hopeless people are not actually hopeless, but rather they block themselves off.
The saying, “You can’t wake someone who is pretending to be asleep,” is for this reason. The prerequisite for a person to wake up is for them to generate the desire to wake up themselves, and then encounter some opportunity to awaken.
If there is no desire to wake up, and a person encounters various things in life that they cannot get over, the resulting negative emotions will be numerous: impatience, complaint, anxiety, tension, remorse, self-blame, inferiority, disappointment, entanglement, depression, emptiness, pessimism, fear, comparison, rebellion, jealousy, suspicion, decadence, frustration, sorrow, and resentment, all of which will affect a person’s physical health.
Perhaps nothing can be seen in the early stages, but over time, illness is prone to occur. Either psychological, physical, or both.
Some people always say that it is about tempering a person’s suffering, that the one behind wants to come out, and so on, and after being tempered, they will be very powerful.
Temper what? In fact, it is all karma created by past habits. Consciousness and the body are protesting simultaneously, meaning the Qi is affected and becomes imbalanced.
If the Qi is not smooth, it will get blocked, and wherever it is blocked, it will cause discomfort.
Calm heart and smooth Qi flow, calm heart and smooth Qi flow, blue Qi is the same as Qi.
If the heart is smoothed out, it will be fine, that is the meaning. If you are unsettled now, energy repulsion will force you to become calm someday.
Only when your heart is calm can things be well. If your heart is unsettled, you will feel pain here, there, listless, uninterested in anything, lacking motivation for anything, starting to feel lazy, feeling uncomfortable doing anything, and then you might think it’s an immortal family tempering you and preventing you from doing it, and then you’ll experience qi moving through channels, opening channels, causing you unbearable pain.
This damn thing is actually your own Qi getting blocked in your body and causing trouble! Opening channels is to clear the blockage!
Why can you communicate with the one behind you after opening channels?
Because after your heart becomes calm and your Qi flows smoothly, your inner heart becomes calmer, and when you calm down, you can more easily communicate with your true self, that is, your true self. The external you is actually communicating with your true self.
That is not someone else, it is you yourself, who is naturally complete. Oh my god! You mistakenly took this external, thinking false self as the real self, and the true self as a god.
It is often said that there are many monks and Taoists at the gates of hell. This is the final incarnation for those who engage in spirit mediumship, so why wouldn’t there be many? Why wouldn’t it be the final incarnation?
You treat the false self as real, and the real self as false, or as something else.
To make it more complicated, you even add other thoughts, like having multiple personalities, this one is surnamed Huang, that one is surnamed Bai, and there are two big grey rats.
Even more interestingly, there are also those who claim to be a gentle breeze, which means ghosts. Then they say to let them help themselves.
I’m speechless! You’re a good person, but you’re going astray, pretending to be mysterious and extraordinary. You yourself are that god, and you’re treating yourself as someone else!
My heavens, how ignorant are worldly people?
And they always say it’s hard to be human, hard to be human. You find it hard, why the hell? You’ve forgotten your true self, so who else would find it hard? Damn it!
And they always say they are suffering, suffering. You’ve suffocated yourself, trapped yourself inside. Why wouldn’t you suffer?
Those who automatically shed tears wherever they go, it’s not the external you, it’s the suppressed you inside crying, it’s that you can’t come out and are wronged!
Oh my goodness!
Sigh…
Uniting the inner self with the outer self is the true self. That is, what the boy talks about, awareness and thought are united. This is becoming the true self, and becoming the true self is the entrance ticket to cultivating immortality!
The external you is lustful appearance and sensory perception; the internal is emptiness, referring to emptiness, true nature.
Form is not without emptiness, emptiness is not without form; form is emptiness, emptiness is form.
This is the united you.
Of course, this is simply put, but this matter is very complex. If the boy were not there to carefully guide people, worldly people would simply be unable to distinguish or know how to cultivate the unity of inner and outer, and how the instinctual operation works.
Even a hundred masters combined wouldn’t know, because this true method of cultivating immortality does not belong to this human world.
Cultivation is cultivation, cultivating immortality is cultivating immortality; they are two completely different meanings.
Blue Friendly reminder~! This is just a fantasy novel~! Pure fantasy novel~! Plot requires it~! Do not take it seriously~! Absolutely do not listen to the novel and cultivate randomly~! Don’t take it seriously~! Blue
