Chapter 244: Righteous Heart And Righteous Mind
Just as I was talking to my three brothers about cultivation.
“Beep beep, beep beep, my Big Brother is the most awesome~!”
A Younger Brother sent a message;
“Are you there, Big Brother?”
“I’m here, what’s up, Younger Brother?”
“Big Brother, I have something I’d like to ask your advice on. I’m not afraid to be laughed at, and I don’t know what’s going on, but since I was in my teens, I’ve gradually come into contact with more things, and then unknowingly developed a fetish, liking girls’ clothing, even to a perverted extent. Whenever I see a girl wearing a short skirt and stockings, my eyes can’t move away. Later, it even developed to the point where I would go to some platforms to watch those scantily clad female streamers, and then under suggestion, brush gifts, in order to obtain the stockings and underwear she mentioned, to bring them back and do some dirty things. Big Brother, do you say I am not pure-hearted in this way?”
Upon hearing this, Big Brother thought for a moment and replied;
“I’ll ask you a few questions, and you need to answer truthfully.”
“Big Brother, please say.”
“Have you done anything out of line because of this psychology, like stealing other people’s underwear, or wanting to do something illegal and wrong?”
“I haven’t, Big Brother. I’m just curious and I feel like I like it. Sometimes I even wear the things I buy. I feel that this makes me feel that my inner heart is not clean, and it’s also very perverted. I don’t dare to tell anyone, so I want to ask you, Big Brother, am I ruined like this? Will I be unable to turn back because of this in the future? This troubles me greatly, but I can’t control myself.”
“Good child, you are very honest with Big Brother. Big Brother can tell you responsibly, this is not a big deal. Boys, or girls, when they lack education about sex, most of their knowledge on this aspect comes from the internet and other sources. Although this supplements our deficiencies, it is not the same as the influence and education they have received.
Most of us are self-taught, and the things we encounter during self-teaching are often produced in certain regions due to a small population, in order to promote reproduction and increase the local population, or they are designed to satisfy certain desires in their oppressive environments. So it’s inevitable that this will have some impact on our souls.
This is not something you can’t get over. Everyone appreciates beauty; it’s normal for you to like those things, as long as you don’t harm others, and don’t let yourself be so obsessed with these things that you wear down your will, then it’s really nothing.
Big Brother also had a great interest in this aspect back in the day. The reasons were, first, not knowing how to approach girls or how to find a partner, and second, it was the period of awakening desires, with a stirring feeling towards these things. Coupled with seeing those things, it made you uncontrollable both mentally and physically.
Metaphysics calls this having a lustful heart, the lecherous ghost has arrived. But you don’t want to harm anyone, and you want to satisfy yourself, so this feeling shifts from people to objects. This is not a perverted thing; you didn’t steal, you didn’t rob, and you didn’t harm anyone, you just had this desire and then did this. It’s nothing. The key is that you can face it calmly, and little by little, when you reach the appropriate age, you will head in the right direction, and having a girlfriend will resolve these matters.
As for you wanting to wear them or try them, there’s even less reason to be troubled. Big Brother always wore knee pads when he was injured, all year round. It was better in winter, with those warm leg warmers, but in summer, especially when he started working, even with the lightest knee pads, his legs would get red from friction every day, and they would even get uncomfortable from sweat. Sometimes, because he walked a lot, the knee pads would always fall off.
Later, when there was no other way, Big Brother researched the material of knee pads, including some so-called medical stockings, and found that their purpose was to add a little pressure to the legs, reduce venous blood stasis, and promote lower limb blood circulation.
Many of the materials are identical to stockings, with no difference, just much thicker than normal thin stockings. I have checked a lot of information and finally learned that the earliest pantyhose were actually invented for men to wear to cover their leg hair for aesthetic purposes. Later, they spread to the common people, and women felt that this made their legs look beautiful, so they also started wearing them. When merchants saw the large market for women, they began to develop pantyhose and stockings for women.
Because the development time of our world is relatively short, but the progress is exceptionally fast, while accepting new things, our cognition in this area is shallow. Therefore, after introducing them, people didn’t know their origins and only knew that women wore them more at the time, which led most people to believe they were women’s items.
And ignorant people, not understanding, will think it’s too feminine for boys to wear such things and define it as perverted.
Big Brother also wore them back then, and wore them for several years. At first, it felt very awkward, and in my heart I thought, is it too effeminate for me, a boy, to wear something like this? Isn’t it a bit out of place?
But after trying it, I actually felt it was nothing, and it even helped me break a certain spiritual block. Objects themselves don’t have the concept of male or female; clothes, shoes, everything is like that, only after people define them do they exist. If skirts are feminine and men shouldn’t wear them, can you ask a skirt to give birth to a child for you? In other words, men’s clothes belong to men, so is it perverted for women to wear them? No, right?
Look at those ballet dancers or dancers of certain types, the men also wear pantyhose~! Do you call them perverted? Probably not, right?
Or, if a boy stands on the street wearing underwear, do you say he’s perverted? Some women would say yes~!
But what about a woman standing on the street wearing a bikini? No one calls her perverted, they call her slutty~!
What about wearing these two things on the beach? They both become normal! If you stand on the beach wearing a damn down jacket, people will still say you’re damn crazy!
Do you understand what I’m saying? Whether it’s perverted or not is related to what you think, and has absolutely nothing to do with what you wear~!
For example, some basketball players wear stockings inside during training to prevent their sports pants from chafing their legs. Many of our brothers who work as firefighters also often wear them inside to prevent friction from their pants on their legs. Some brothers whose feet sweat a lot even use sanitary napkins as insoles at the bottom of their feet to absorb sweat.
Some people with hemorrhoids also pad their pants to keep the area clean and dry. Do you think any of these are perverted? None of them, right?
So don’t have any pressure, Younger Brother. As long as you don’t cause trouble for others and don’t do bad things, you are not evil, let alone perverted~!
Also, next time you buy, don’t buy used ones, buy some new ones and just wear them inside your pants! This is no different from leggings, just a matter of thickness!
Slutty, you have to be positively slutty! Do you know if the used items you buy might have diseases? Can you be sure it’s from that female streamer? What if it was worn by the female streamer’s boyfriend or some big guy just to sell it to you? Right?
So, you don’t need to be afraid of this kind of thing, but you also need to keep your heart right. Those people who act so prim and proper, wearing sexy clothes, what are they for? Isn’t it just to use their lustful appearance to deceive fools into spending money? After falling for this lustful appearance, you spend money to buy something used by some second-hand big guy, and then they call you perverted, isn’t that quite meaningless?
Just be yourself openly. There are plenty of men’s ones. If you don’t steal, don’t rob, don’t do evil, and simply like to wear them, there’s nothing wrong with that. Slowly, your heart will adjust. A prodigal son returning is more precious than gold. Even if you wear them your whole life, it won’t affect others, you won’t have any burden, and it won’t be dirty, so what’s the big deal? Right? It’s not important. If your heart is pure, even if you’re stark naked, your heart is still pure~! What does it have to do with what you like to wear?
It’s just that it needs to be appropriate, and in certain environments, if it doesn’t cause trouble for others, and you don’t do those dirty things, then it’s fine.
Girls too, what’s wrong with wearing boys’ clothes? Can clothes be divided into male and female? Aren’t couple’s outfits and couple’s shoes all the same? Why burden yourself with so many definitions?
What are all those things? Loving the country, loving family, loving all sentient beings, these are the positive things. Everything else is crap. They are not even matters~! Do you understand, Younger Brother?”
“Wuwuwu…, Big Brother, I don’t even know what to say. I feel like you live so transparently that nothing is a problem when I talk to you about it, wuwuwu, I understand, Big Brother. From now on, I will correct myself. Even if I still like those clothes or whatever, I will have a positive heart, never do evil, and no longer be influenced by lustful appearances, wuwuwuwuwu, thank you Big Brother. I feel like in this world, only you can understand me. I feel like no one else can do this.”
“Cough cough, Big Brother is just discussing the matter at hand. You are still a good child. The fact that you can ask Big Brother so frankly shows that your heart is pure, you just haven’t been given a direction. Don’t put pressure on yourself, be magnanimous. Let alone wearing stockings, even if you wore lace underwear, if you saw a child falling into a river, your first reaction would be to reach out and pull the child up, then you would be a Buddha~! Because the state of your heart is that of a Buddha~!”
“Thank you Big Brother, I know, I understand.”
“Good, that’s the way it should be. Talk about other things, it’s useless. The truth is revealed in action~! No matter how manly you dress, if you see a child falling into a river and don’t reach out, or try to help, but just watch coldly, or even film it for fun, then that’s perverted~!
Let’s say even if you can’t swim, you quickly call for help, quickly find a way to help the child, you are not perverted at all, you are very great~! Do you understand? Do you understand what perverted and not perverted means?”
“I understand, Big Brother. Big Brother, may you have boundless blessings, thank you Big Brother.”
“Yes, boundless blessings. Go play, hahaha, maintain a righteous heart and righteous mind~!”
“Okay, Big Brother~! Grateful for your teachings, Big Brother~!”
“Go~!”
